{"id":671,"date":"2004-10-16T11:22:36","date_gmt":"2004-10-16T16:22:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.alevin.com\/?p=671"},"modified":"2004-10-16T11:22:36","modified_gmt":"2004-10-16T16:22:36","slug":"a-gaffe-is-in-the-mind-of-the-beholder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.alevin.com\/?p=671","title":{"rendered":"A gaffe is in the mind of the beholder"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The response to Kerry&#8217;s mention of Dick Cheney&#8217;s daughter is a Rorschach test that diagnoses three different attitudes toward gay people.<br \/>\n1) Gay is normal. among the young, libertarian, and socially tolerant, gay identity is like height and hair color &#8211; a neutral identifying characteristic.  Mentioning Mary Cheney highlights the hypocrisy of Republicans who advocate laws to restrict the rights of people in their own families.<br \/>\n2) Gay is embarrassing. Among ordinary older folk, being gay is still embarrassing.  People who are socially prejudiced may not be in favor of laws restricting the rights of gay people, but they consider it rude to identify a gay relative in public.  Lynne Cheney&#8217;s reaction is an example of this attitude.<br \/>\n3) Gay is evil. Among Christian right wingers, being gay is evil. People who didn&#8217;t know that Mary Cheney is lesbian might not vote for her dad because he didn&#8217;t successfully protect her from Satan and forbid her sinful lifestyle.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s clear from the reaction that Kerry miscalculated.  If Kerry spoke naively, as a New Englander who takes a level of social tolerance for granted, he underestimated the strength of garden-variety social prejudice.  If Kerry meant to speak simultaneously to groups #1 and #3, then the tactic backfired badly by not taking #2 into account.  The Rove Machine won the spin by building an alliance between groups #2 and #3, the prejudiced and the fundamentalists.<br \/>\nTo those who watched the debates, Kerry clearly won, according to surveys of debate-watchers. He came across as competent and compassionate, stronger on international and domestic issues. But to the larger population who only see snippets of spin on TV, Kerry comes off as a bad guy.<br \/>\nPolitical speech is difficult because of the need to communicate to people with different worldviews and vocabularies.  Great political speech builds common ground.  Ordinary political speech is slippery and calculating &#8212;  it is intended to mean different things to different people.  Ineffective political speech fails both ways &#8212; it doesn&#8217;t build common ground, and it doesn&#8217;t assemble a majority by meaning different things to different people.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The response to Kerry&#8217;s mention of Dick Cheney&#8217;s daughter is a Rorschach test that diagnoses three different attitudes toward gay people. 1) Gay is normal. among the young, libertarian, and socially tolerant, gay identity is like height and hair color &#8211; a neutral identifying characteristic. Mentioning Mary Cheney highlights the hypocrisy of Republicans who advocate &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.alevin.com\/?p=671\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;A gaffe is in the mind of the beholder&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-671","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-political"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/prDRq-aP","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.alevin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/671","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.alevin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.alevin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.alevin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.alevin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=671"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.alevin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/671\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.alevin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=671"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.alevin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=671"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.alevin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=671"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}